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September 12, 2018
September 11, 2018, 11:45 AM

“Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.” Proverbs 27:6

Jesus left us the Great Commission. We’ve talked about it at great length over the past few months. The synopsis of the Great Commission is that all Christians are to make disciples and teach them to follow the ways of Christ. Yet, for some reason, we struggle with making disciples. Is Jesus worth talking about? Do we care enough about lost people to teach them the only way to be saved? Do we know how to express to others the mission Jesus left for us? How many disciples have we made since becoming a Christian?

How can we effectively share Jesus with those who are lost? We must seek opportunities and make a real effort to connect with them. One of the first things we can do is to intentionally meet with them. We must spend time with people so that we get to know them and build a relationship with them. People have a very difficult time discussing spiritual matters when they are uncomfortable. How often have we heard the excuse “I don’t know what to say”? Think back to Jesus’ encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well. He started the conversation by asking her for a drink of water. Although He knew everything about her lifestyle, He did not begin the conversation by criticizing her. It would be wonderful if we could learn to do the same.

As we build relationships, there comes a time when we must address sin. However, we cannot address sin with others until we have confronted sin in our own life. When we address sin, the world will call us judgmental because the desire of the world is to make people “feel good” about themselves regardless of lifestyle. Yet, when sin is confronted, it gives the Holy Spirit the opportunity to do His work of convicting. Discussing sin is the hard part but is often softened through trusted relationships.

Look again at the passage above very carefully. A true friend shares the truth even though it is painful. There will be occasions when the person will get mad, or worse, break the friendship. Does that mean we have failed? No! It means we have been obedient to Jesus in sharing the truth of His Word by inviting others to be followers. There will be others who will surrender to the conviction of the Holy Spirit and be set free in Christ. What a celebration will follow! We encourage you to make the most of every opportunity, develop friendships based on the truth, and see people come to know Jesus before it is too late.

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